The first thing to know if you’re thinking about indulging in some hanky spanky is that it’s not really about pain.
For most people, the joy of light BDSM activities such as spanking is in playing jump-rope with the lines between control and submission; between fantasy and reality; and conviction and role-play. Chances are, the first time one of you smacks the other’s bottom, there’ll be more gleeful giggles than pained screams. The trick is in recognising the inherent ridiculousness of two adults spanking each other, then playing around with the degree of seriousness. It’s also important to keep it sexy, so make sure to add in lots of squeezing and stroking between thwacks. Remember, if you’re not having fun, you’re not doing it right.
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