We all want good sex, and most of us know that one of the best ways to get it is through communication. Of course, talking to your lover is paramount, but outside voices can be very useful too. Asking for advice has lost its stigma, and it seems the only thing we as a hyper-sexed society talks about these days. It helps to know that others have experienced the same thing you have: you could be surprised and gratified to discover you’re not the only one who can orgasm only if Barry White is playing in the background. 

Our agony aunts take many forms, from cheeky Cosmo articles and rowdy drinks with the lads, to Ann Summers parties and barbeque banter, the topic of sex is fair game. So go ahead, ask about the best oral techniques, how to approach light bondage and what a good dirty word for boobs could be (we recommend avoiding the phrase ‘dirty pillows’). And hey, if you don’t have anyone close by when you need some advice, go on and throw some questions our way. We love being handy here at Joybear…