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Orgasmic Journeys Part 2 posted on 15th May 2020

So now that you've hopefully spent some time experimenting with getting yourself in the mood and the beautiful pleasure of the clitoris, it's time to have a look at the other sorts of orgasm that women can experiment with. Remember that this is about pleasure, not just an end result, so try not to put pressure on yourself and instead just take the opportunity to explore and get to know yourself better.

First up - vaginal orgasms, of which there are several! The best known is probably the G-spot orgasm, although some people will debate it even exists, the experience of some 30% of women who can achieve orgasm though penetration alone says otherwise. So how do we find our G-spot? You are looking for a small, spongy area on the front wall of the vagina. This is a great one to explore with a toy or a partner, or you can try with your hand by inserting a finger and making a 'come hither' motion. Explore with circular motions and different levels of pressure and see what feels good for you. Remember that lube can really help.


Past the G-spot there are other erogenous zones deep inside the vagina, first the A-spot on the front high wall just beneath the cervix and then the O-spot which is on the back wall of the vagina, behind the cervix. You will need deep penetration to explore these areas either with a partner or a toy. This area can be quite sensitive so take it slow and gentle.


Another debated orgasm is the squirting orgasm, sometimes called the U-spot orgasm for urethra. Sometimes when women are aroused there is an expulsion of fluid from the glands around the urethra, although there is contention about where the fluids come from and what they are. However, female ejaculation exists and the fluid is typically clear and doesn't resemble urine and many women report an incredible feeling of release with this sort of orgasm. G-spot stimulation is typically what can lead to a squirting orgasm, or stimulation around the urethra.


Anal orgasms are also a thing, for many women anal intercourse feels fantastic. Remember that when starting to explore this sort of penetration lube and time are your friends. Don't ever rush anything, anal play isn't for everyone so take it slow and start small with your toys.

Ever heard of a breastgasm? Yes, that's right, some lucky ladies can come through nipple play alone. You can also explore playing with your breasts at the same time as another spot and look out for a blended orgasm, breasts are beautifully sensitive and can take your clitoral orgasms to new levels.


Have you ever woken up aroused after experiencing a shuddering orgasm in your sleep? I know I have, although I sadly haven't pinpointed the thoughts I need to go to sleep with to make it happen with more regularity. The brain, after all, is the biggest sexual organ we have and thoughts and fantasies can be extremely powerful, especially when combined with physical touch. You can take inspiration from experiences, fantasies, erotica or films you have watched. With practice these orgasms can be achieved through thought alone, a fun project to work towards I think.

Finally, for now, the much lauded multiple orgasm. Sounds so simple doesn't it? But not many women experience them, maybe because we are so pleased with one, another seems almost, can I say, greedy? Well, lets let go of that silly guilt because keeping yourself on an orgasmic plateau can be amazing. One tip is after your first orgasm, to contract your pelvic floor muscles to keep blood flow high, increase sensitivity and make your next orgasm easier to reach.


Lots to think about and try...


Stay safe. Have fun. Issy x




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