Inspired by our latest release Love Is Blind, this week on The Journal I am sharing some of my hot tips on how to bring a blindfold into the bedroom. 'All The Feels' stars Nat Portnoy, Alyssia Kent and Sylvan in a hot threesome, and will have you feeling all sorts of things about blindfolds; I am sure of it...

In this film, the beautiful Nat Portnoy is Julie, a girl losing her sight, but discovering as her vision deteriorates her other senses begin to heighten. Soon she is reaching new sexual heights as she explores her other senses. In the first episode, her bedroom partners wear blindfolds to help her feel more comfortable, leading to an explosively erotic scene between the three of them.

Blindfolds are a popular bedroom prop and one that you should definitely add to your collection. As they have both a physical and mental effect, there are lots of different ways that you can use one in your erotic activities. Wearing one can heighten your sense of touch so your partner slowly caressing your body can feel electric. They can also reduce performance pressure and inhibitions - when you blindfold you partner you will forget about any self-esteem issues you might have.

You will need to talk to your partner about the idea, and if they are into this, it's a great way to build excitement as well. Watching erotica that explores your chosen kink is always a good way to break the ice about new things in the bedroom, as you can gauge your partner's reaction without putting pressure on them.

Shopping for a blindfold that you both like can be a lovely way to set the tone and build up anticipation for your next sensual session together.

When it comes to blindfolds, I personally favour a silk one that you tie at the back, as then you can make the tying-up part of the fun, as well as having options to play with it in other ways... You can get blindfolds and ‘love masks’ in an array of different styles and colours so you can coordinate with lingerie or nightwear. Black lace is another favourite of mine.

Another thing I love about blindfolds is that adding them into your sex play is kinky, but not frighteningly kinky, so perfect for those who want to just dip their toe into power play. Blindfolding your partner puts you in charge, which can be a great turn on, or being blindfolded can let you know whether you might enjoy a submissive role. The blindfolded person doesn't know what to expect yet so it can also bring an element of sexy surprise.

Shutting down one sense also intensifies others - a simple touch can suddenly become electrically erotic once you have a blindfold on. You can experiment with stroking your partner with different textures, feathers, silk, your hair, or even your nipples; and I can guarantee they will be quivering with pleasure. Another trick that I love, is to have a hot cup of tea and a glass of iced water, and then sip from one, and kiss or tease your partner with your tongue, and then alternate to the opposite temperature.

Stay safe. Have fun. Issy x